How to instantly attract any woman simon heong pdf

It's all about making connections. The more connections you make, the more women and options you're going to have. Once you know cool people that are like you that you can add or exchange value to their lives with, they'll have other people and women who they can introduce you to. It's just a roundabout circle that works in your favor, not to mention that it's healthy and normal. Don't Smother The Girl This means dont be the pervert who follows her through the malls, shopping centers and school hallways or sits at her lunch table all period and doesnt say hardly a word but just hopes by being near her.

The same one who calls that night to talk on the phone for hours and get nowhere with her. Then she turns around to her friends and says hes a loser. Yes, you can guess what I did, I smothered her the next day by coming by at around 10am to hang out. We went inside her house and just stayed there and I pretty much killed it. The moment I began to like her and wanted her more, the more she pulled away and found better things to do. She moved on and we werent even friends. That night I had stopped by, we both wanted each other pretty bad, but through my desperateness for her attraction, it quickly died out.

The lesson here is too many guys are waiting on the woman hand and foot. Dont allow her to get out of control. And dont allow her to control you. What is the punishment if she fails to follow your rules? Her punishment if she fails to control herself, becomes a hassle or is no longer attractive to you, is she loses your attention and attraction.

This is a big punishment if you manage to be attractive to her and come across as charming and respectful. This will not really be much of a punishment if you are unattractive not physically or become an asshole. Now, dont mistake this advice Ive given so far as you have to be Mr. Macho man where you must control her and not allow her to get out of line or theres punishment. Thats how an asshole thinks, not an attractive man. By smothering a girl, its where you spend all of your time on her and do the OPPOSITE of being in control, where she is given the power and youre at her every whim.

Dont jump into opportunities to meet her places, do things and hang out and dont stay on the phone too long, which is another way to smother her which Ill talk about later. Of course every other time or once in a while its fine to meet her places and do things, just not all the time. By making yourself a challenge, it makes her want you to be around a lot more and you can do that without jumping into opportunities to be with her. If she asks for you to go to her house, tell her You probably just want to bring me into your bedroom and take advantage of me, in this case Im going to have to turn you down on your offer.

See where Im going? This is just the opposite of saying Yes, yes Ill be right over. It gets her to want you to come over 2x as bad.

It works, the idea is not to put them down or make them feel bad, but to just point out something or tease a girl about anything and everything try and avoid physical jokes unless you feel shell be comfortable with it. Find anything, her purse, shoes, glasses, what shes doing, how shes doing it, where shes going and make a smart or wise ass comment about it sure to make her laugh.

The intention of your playful teasing is not to tease; keep in mind your intention is to attract her and nothing else. Most guys get offset and decide to do this teasing thing all night and it winds up pissing her off. Tease her when you have a funny or naughty little comment that comes to mind and dont hold back.

I had to re-learn this skill from kindergarten and Id say its the best one to have. All too often guys are afraid and hold back on teasing girls because it could ruin their chances. It seems men with only the intention to have fun and dont really care much what she thinks of him happen to get the best results. Dont hold back when you have a funny comment, and dont worry what shell think.

Youll know it worked if she laughs along or if she playfully smacks you on the arm or even the ass, then you can be sure its working. Its often good to approach girls and use the teasing technique. Its one of my favorite approaches to use when youre kinda lost. For instance I would say Now thats weird, Ive never seen a purse with handles like that before, it sure is different.

Conversations similar to this one usually get girls laughing and willing to flirt and tease back which is always fun. Now when youre teasing a girl and it hasnt gone over too well, usually theres one of three possible reasons for this from my experience which are usually the only cases that ever come up. Youll just have to find something funnier next time. Situation 2 can be avoided, but not with all women. Once again, I cant help you if the topic you tried wasnt funny, I still get that problem a lot.

If you used an offensive line, its fine, just apologize, learn and move on. In situation 3 its best to move on. I really havent found a great way to get around a girls mood when shes not in the mood for joking around. If she cant take a joke or seems to be in a bit of a bitchy mood, Ill leave her alone.

Not worth your time. The best thing to remember about teasing is as long as its not too offensive, you can find just about anything to make a wise ass comment about and use it. Remember not to be too worried about what shell think or if youll ruin your chances, just have fun. Playful Teasing Through Actions Teasing a girl physically works usually just as well as verbally.

Either way youre portraying the same idea that youre comfortable around her and willing to tease her a little bit which is good. Now physical teasing with a girl for me personally , usually will involve just doing little subtle things that when she realizes that youre teasing her can be funny for the both of you. For example, physical teasing could be 1 Lightly pushing her as youre walking into things, objects or other people gotta be careful with other people, make sure nobody gets pissed which is great to add in Sorry, she kind of has trouble with her equilibrium.

Were working on it though smile and give her a hug. Easier done, than explained. Even pulling her hair and guiding her around or walking with you pulling on it with her yelling to get off of course dont get her mad, some girls do, girls who do I consider that a red flag which Ill explain later And of course, once back at the ranch, you could even if the timing feels alright. You could be surprised, I find a lot of girls who are fully willing to box or play around with you through activities like that.

Keep in mind, try not to take physical teasing too far. Ill usually avoid touching her unless shes comfortable or already having fun with you this is usually about a minute after we begin talking in my case, everyones different though.

Once you guys start laughing or having fun it should be ok at that point for physical teasing. Keep in mind not to overdo it, Ill keep verbal and physical teasing at the same level about mostly and not favor one. Understand The Three Keys To Making First Sex Work The three most important things you could probably ever know about great sex are that its about honesty, attention to detail, and a sense of humor.

I dont need to tell you the up-side of sex but there are implications of each of these components that are integral to a successful experience for both of you.

Honesty: There is hardly anything more honest than standing totally naked in front of someone. After the trow has been dropped, you are miles beyond does my ass look fat in these pants? So, take some time to walk yourself through the scenario in your head before you get there so you dont become the dope people point and laugh at when they hear she took off your pants and you turned on the TV.

Before you get the key to the city, you have to prove your worth and probably answer some important, pop quiz questions. A few of them, accompanied by some sample answers remember were talking honesty , are as follows:. Q: What are we doing? A: Being impulsive, enjoying each other, and agreeing to deal with it later.

Q: Did you think it was going to be that easy? A: No. I just thought it was going to be that good. When this question was posed to me several years ago, I didnt end up having sex with the woman but we fooled around the entire night naked in my bed, which to me was still a fantastic experience. That is until the cable guy showed up early the next morning.

Attention to detail: The saying Why do girls work so hard on tanning when all the guys care about is the white parts? As I have gained experience, I am convinced its almost all about all-over foreplay.

If youre hoping that your chosen partner will throw caution to the wind and get jiggy with you, some unrushed foreplay that focuses on a persons whole body and not just the white parts is a great way to get there. Ask yourself: Have you ever prolonged the warm up so far that she begged you to have sex with her? If you havent, I passionately suggest you make that the next milestone in life for you, and anyone you want to become intimate with. How do you get to the part when people start shedding clothes?

One of my go-to approaches is giving a back rub. This is an opportunity to demo your sensitive, healing, powerful touch to someone. There are plenty of ways to become proficient: DVDs, books, etc.

I am sure some of your opposite sex friends wouldnt mind you trying out some of your new massage skills on them. Many girls are self-conscious about how they look. Think of how long it takes for them to get ready. For better and worse, they really care a lot about and scrutinize how they look.

Now imagine this person taking off her clothes on stage with you watching. That is the extreme of making being uncomfortable. The other end of the spectrum is a pitch-black bedroom where you lose all the visual pleasure of the beautiful female form.

Meet her in the middle, at least at first, by dimming the lights to a warm, comfortable level. The light from several candles placed near the bed not only creates a romantic, pleasurable ambience, but also gives her the security of not being under the microscope.

There are a number of erogenous locations on a persons body beyond the ones inside the tan lines. Not everyones the same, but the body language will tell you whether you are pressing the right buttons. The wet-willy, sticking your tongue in her ear, is a great example of something that will pull the needle off the record on the wrong person. The sides of the stomach, the sides and back of the neck, and the small of the back are also key areas for kissing and playful biting during foreplay.

An uncommon, yet effective approach to getting a woman in the mood is a foot message. Find some Peppermint foot lotion at a store like Body Works and spend about ten minutes on each foot. Pressure points on the feet, at least what Ive experienced, are connected to other more sensitive areas of the fairer sex. This is a very nice way to set yourself apart and that you are committed to taking care of her in more ways than one. When you are with someone the first time physically or still figuring the person out, dont you think you need to control the situation?

Its a dance, not a liquor store robbery. Bookmark based on reaction. Sense of Humor: In any sexual relationship, some uncomfortable stupidity inevitably presents itself. Sights, sounds, and general clumsiness are commonplace. Its not like filming porn that can be edited later. If you cant laugh at yourself in exposed, compromising situations, you dont deserve to be there.

Laughing together at sex follies can bring you closer together than the physical union itself. Laughter is also a big turn-on for me, and most of the women I have been with. It takes the edge of anxiety off, breaks the ice, and allows you to relax and focus on this warm, intimate dance with each other.

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There's a thin fine line in between them so you better be not be left out and be 'in the know'. Is this necessarily bad, not really. We require the same emotional as well as physical needs. They are provideddifferently today but the fact remains we have the same requirements. Why are the females attracted to these males who are at great risk of death?

Actually because the great confidence and cockiness of the peacock showinghis beautiful colors attracts them like crazy. This does not mean to wave an American flag next to terrorists or somethingto attract women. I use practically ancient ideas in quite a few areas of my life and it benefitsme every day.

My diet, exercise routine, and attraction system are allcongruent with what worked thousands of years ago. So what was attractive years ago which will ALWAYS be attractive to womenuntil the test of time which men are using less and less of as the years pass?

After studying our past, thisis what I found in males that are attractive to females. And now mostimportant is how these 6 traits can tie into your life.